fix ornstein_uhlenbeck example on gpu:
- use make_catalogue instead of make_catalogue_standalone
- link to arbor-private-deps
- mark all files as c++ sources when using cuda-clang or hip-clang

Addresses #1987

* reproducibility test for random number generator
* C++ example demonstrating Ornstein-Uhlenbeck process
* Python example featuring stochastic mechanism
* stochastic mechanism catalogue

The Python example is contributed by Jannik Luboeinski's (@jlubo): https://github.com/jlubo/arbor_ou_lif_example
and adapted to fit into Arbor.