- make spack ci run use arbor version information
- Cache Spack for GH Actions

- zenodo entry for v0.5.2
- minor formatting update to spack file

- Add an optional CMake option `ARB_CXX_FLAGS_TARGET` for setting target-specific flags to use when compiling for the target architecture (not applied to compilation of modcc).
- If `ARB_ARCH=="none"` CMake will not add architecture-specific `mtune/march/mcpu` flags
- Remove `ARB_CXXOPT_ARCH` from the installed `arbor-config.cmake`, and replace with more general `ARB_CXX_FLAGS_TARGET`.
- Update spack `package.py` to use this feature to pass custom flags.

Fixes #1519
Fixes #1522 

Replaces PR #1518 

* Update URLs to arbor-sim.org
* update badge links

Replicate the spack `package.py` from the main spack repository into the arbor repo.

Some small updates were made:
- Correctly provide a url for the GitHub tagged release
- Specify minimum pybind11 version 2.6

Fixes #1465