Sanitize recipe (#1143)

* Raise an exception if:
1. `recipe.num_souces(gid)` != number of detectors placed on the cell.
2. `recipe.num_targets(gid)`  != number of synapses placed on the cell.
3. `recipe.connections_on(gid)` has connections with non-existent source or target gids or lids
* Raise better exception for gap junctions
* Fix unit test 

Addresses #681