Since currently not many people (except for obreitwi) are using the
build cache api, take the opportunity to streamline parameter names and
have all modifiers for `BUILD_THIS` start with `WITH`:
    * `WITH_CACHE_NAME` (renamed from `USE_CACHE_NAME`)
    * `WITHOUT_FAILED_CACHE` (renamed from `NO_FAILED_CACHE`)
    * `WITH_DEBUG`
    * `WITH_SPACK_CHANGE`

Change-Id: Ibecdd8e93516a8297373c7a0763b0d9827791dfe