CMake and build refactoring

*   Use CUDA as first-class language (leading to CMake 3.9 minimum version requirement).

*   Use 'modern CMake' interface libraries for compiler options, include file and library dependency tracking. Interface library targets:
    * `arbor-deps`: compiler options and library requirements for the `libarbor.a` static library, as governed by configure-time options and environment.
    * `arbor-private-headers`: include path for non-installed headers, as required by unit tests and arbor itself.
    * `arbor-aux`: helper classes and utilities used across tests and examples.
    * `ext-json`, `ext-tclap`, `ext-tbb`, `ext-benchmark`, `ext-sphinx_rtd_theme`: externally maintained software that we include (directly or via submodule) in the `ext/` subdirectory.
 
*   Single static library `libarbor.a` includes all built-in modules and CUDA objects.

*   Simply configuration options:
    *  `ARB_WITH_TRACE`, `ARB_AUTORUN_MODCC_ON_CHA...